Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Love Q #10 - Sex - When Should You Start?

This week Love Q created by the author of Short Sweet Love Poem are as follows:

What stage in a relationship do you think two people should be at before they start sleeping together?

My answer:

Hmm... this is a tough question. If I say they can have it when both reaches a certain level of maturity in the relationship, then it would be against many religious law. I am thinking it's up to individual on when they want to start that chapter of their life. But yet, this freedom is dangerous to the young and naive because it can distroy a person's future as in the case of teenage pregnancy. If both are not young and age past far beyond teenage years, having premarital sex could be quite damaging emotionally if the relationship did not work out in the long run. So, I guess ideally it would be best to safe your virginity for the person you are marrying. But then, it is easier said then done. Where love matters, some things is really hard to control and our heart might rules over our head sometimes, isn't it?

Last week's Love Q: When To Marry

5 comments:

Tot's Mom said...

Ideally, yes, wait until the person you are going to marry comes along, which could also mean wait until marriage is already on the cards. But I seriously doubt many people would wait that long these days before hopping onto bed!

sting said...

hmmm, not many people practice abstinence these days... the usual reason is that if you don't "do it" how will you know if (s)he's the one... unfortunately that's the wrong reason...

Amidrin said...

tot's mom: yes, hardly anyone would wait until they are married before sleeping together these days.

sting: yep, definitely the wrong reason.

Yling said...

It's hard to safe it for your wedding night but it's not impossible!

Amidrin said...

Yes, yling. You're right. It's not impossible.